Relationship is comparison, necessary because in isolation there is no measure by which we can define objectively. Things don’t exist in non-relationship.
Relationship is most quickly identified in opposition. That requires judgment. That word triggers yoga folks who are stepping all over themselves to practice non-judgment. So that word is repurposed as discernment which takes the subjective opinion out of the picture. That alone might take a lifetime of practice.
Everything is relative.
True identification takes patience. What is truth anyway? Do you know that in relation to what is false? What is false but its relationship to truth? There must be a neutral jury! What you intuit from your heart must be considered in light of what you know objectively and historically. What’s outside our skin we can only surmise. We use our skin for the knowing in yoga.
Sensation clarifies with patience and experience.
You are not patient. It is trained out of you. Go faster is your mantra.
Life’s become a game of seconds. Split those seconds. Quarter them. Anticipate. Aggravate. Accelerate. Agitate.
Yoga is the in between. Yoga is neutral. Brain gray. Yoga preaches patience.
Sensation is anything but gray. It is all colors and then maybe just light.
You can feel it in the neutral zone of a yoga practice. You are building sensitivity and intuition. Your relationship to yourself colors relationship to other. Put “other” in the neutral zone of yoga to see true colors. Shine your own light to see out there. Notice that relationship is fluid.
Relationship is a flow.